I work with families navigating the messy, beautiful work of growing up.

I'm a therapist in New York City, and I write about what I'm learning from my clients, from research, and from trying to make sense of it all.

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Parenting Dec 15, 2025

When Your Teen Says "I'm Fine"

I've been thinking about the gap between what teens say and what they mean. Here's what I tell parents when they're worried their kid isn't opening up.

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